10 Subtle Behaviors of Men Who Pretend to Be Nice (But Actually Aren’t)

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He is over-complimenting

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He manipulates conversations

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He lacks empathy and kindness

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He doesn't respect boundaries

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He displays inconsistent behavior

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He rarely apologizes

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He always plays the victim

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He always agrees with you

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Absence of actions to back up words

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He is not genuinely happy for others

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